The only thing missing is an easy way to configure the field "blog image". It appears to search for a blogspot-type standard profile image and did not work with my customized WordPress blog (even though there is an image coupled to each post). I'm fine with it not finding that, but disappointed in the broken image pane still on the profile.
Thx for the great review!
The css bug (CB profile tabs turning blue) is now fixed in version 1.3!
Sorry to hear you're still searching :) However, while looking at sh404sef it seems you missed the "By components" settings page ? that's where you select whether to build urls using sh404sef built inplugins, joomla native router.php files, a simple default url encoding or even to leave them non-sef. And you do that on a component by component basis - plus you also select whether to translate urls if using joomfish, and more...