One of the four minutes was my fault for not reading the simple instruction to enable the module in Administrator not the Site.
I can't rate this high enough and thank the developer for making such a good extension free.
Of course I made a mistake and asked the developer a question by email, I received a reply in few hours with a further offer of help if I could not get it to work for me.
A great product by an equally gratious and helpful designer who takes great pride in making this extension work for everybody.
I couldn't describe the problem for proper forum search after 2 hours I found this extension.
Took maybe 3 minutes to download, install now the tab reads "My Site".
Perfect for those of us newbies who do not understand code.