After trying many option with out any results..I found this module.
This MetaMod hit the spot!.. It was just what I needed!!
After getting a chance to explore MetaMod even further I came to the conclusion that this needs to be part of the Joomla core.
On first look you may not see a use for MetaMod but i have had it a week and can see that i have spent many hours trying to come up with ways to do all kinds of module placement stuff that this module will do in just a few moments.
Can I give it 6 or 7 stars?